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| Summary of Question: | Can I Get Help By Meditating On Lavan..... |
| Category: | Love & Marriage |
| Date Posted: | Saturday, 11/08/2003 4:25 AM MST |
Firstly i would like to thanks for this service to help peoples like us.I belive that as u help other peoples so much,,,i can get help from you also.I am very confused and dont understand what to do?After reading other peoples question and answers i still cant able to find answer of my questions.I am sikh women and married to sikh man.I trust on babaji also but still i need ur help....
My marriage is not a succesful marriage.we r living in usa.we fight a lot everyday.My hubby is very intelligent guy,if i compare my self to him i am nothing.I feel like my marriage is going to end.
How to meditate on lavan? Does doing meditation on lavan helps in making a marriage succesful? Can this be done alone if husband is not ready to read or meditate or might be busy with his work.
Please kindly give me some advice and shed some light.
May Waheguruji bless u and keep u in chardeekalaa.
WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA,WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH!
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Sat Siri Akaal. Meditating on Lavan is a wonderful approach to healing your marriage. I would also recommend daily recitation of whole Sukhmani. The task of all Sikhs is to daily chant the Naam. Perhaps you could convince your husband to spend ELEVEN minutes a day (morning or evening) chanting the Naam or reciting Gurbani (perhaps the 1 slok/8 pauris of Sukhmani at a time). Indeed, one can do much for one's marriage and spouse by daily meditation where in your mind's eye you INCLUDE your spouse and hold him in the light in your mind. Sukhmani will help YOU to attain neutral mind and understand, perhaps, why you have difficulty in your marriage. Of course, have you tried TALKING to him and asking him what the problem is that causes so much friction?
WOmen are the GRACE OF GOD. Please consider this and do not consider yourself worthless because he is smart and working. You have your own wonderful qualities and are the anchor for the household. Stop beating yourself up. COnsider doing VOLUNTEER work for your community or gurdwara to give yourself something a means of seva and focus outside the home. I hope this helps. Guru ang sang,
-DKK
Can I Get Help By Meditating On Lavan..... (11/08/2003)