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Summary of Question:	In Delima
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Saturday, 4/28/2001 11:57 AM MDT

sat shri akal

iam sikh girl my problem is that i am getting married to cleanshaven sikh guy
now he want me also to cut my hair as he say i very beautiful with my hair trimmed .tell me what to do
please reply fast.

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You are beautiful just as you are. Do not cut your hair to please your husband to be. You have a standard - you have a caliber. Stick to it. Your relationship with your Guru comes FIRST. Your relationship with your husband comes SECOND. Never make the mistake of putting them in the wrong order, or you will become VERY unhappy. Perhaps, through your own devotion, you can inspire your husband to let his hairs grow so that he may live with grace and dignity as a Sikh of the Guru. Develop and deepen your own relationship with your Guru every day. Husbands come and go. The Guru does not come and go.

.....G