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Summary of Question:	Prayer For Cousin's Family?
Category:	Gurbani
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 6/04/2008 4:58 AM MDT

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

i have a cousin in england who is 12 years old.right now she is facing really hard problems with her parents .if she does anything wrong she gets a bash from her dad and he also uses bad language.this is because she is interested in boys and even went on her own to town to meet them.she also lies.her father is really strict and expects her daughter to be a proper indian girl in following the sikh religion.
her father is my mamaji and everytime i went there for vacation there was always an argue.he himself believe in buddhism and he married his wife because she came from a sikh family.and everytime her daughter did something wrong he also blames her wife for that.
what i wanted to ask is there any prayers to help mamaji?
sometimes he even doesn't listen to his wife and there is an erruption in communication??
but he does listen to his niece and how can i help him???i even advice his family to visit a family therapist,but he didn't agree.
i really do believe in prayers because they are soooo powerful,and i want to help my oncle and his daughter through prayers and communication.
p.s he has also a big ego

thank you
waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

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Sat Nam. Your uncle has an anger management and control-freak problem. Your cousin is reflecting that anger back at him by her so-called rebellion against him. The only prayer I can think of in this situation is calling on Guru Ram Das via the Dhan Dhan Ram Das Guru. Do not tell Guruji what is 'supposed' to happen. Pray for a miracle that your cousin's dysfunctional family be healed. Shabd is on the shabd website.
Guru ang sang,
DKK