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Summary of Question:	2Nd Miscarriage - Need Guidance.
Category:	Health
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 12/22/2004 11:39 AM MST

Hi,

I had a miscarriage in 2003, and again another one now. Am totally devastated. Was so happy and i really want to have a baby .. but what can i do before God's wish? My inlaws and all friends keep bothering me, asking about when i plan to have a baby, it makes me even more depressed when they start interrogating. I know i have to be strong, and just wait for God's hukam. But, is there a path or baani that i should start doing to overcome my fear and to fullfill my wish, of having a healthy,happy & holy baby, and help me in a easy pregnancy for future.
Please let me know, i'm in great need of guidance at this point. I can't express myself to anyone.
Thanks for your support.

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Sat nam. My deepest condolences to you.
Please see medical practitioner(s) of your choice to understand why you are mis-carrying. Sometimes it is nature's way of saying the baby could not survive well, other times it is nature's way of saying you have something preventing you from carrying a baby. Check it out please!
Give your body and psyche a break and don't push to become pregnant for a while (use birth control)--I recommend at least a year. Chant the naam daily. I highly recommend daily recitation of Sukhmani Sahib to restore peace of mind and release your fears. Chanting Jaap Sahib is also a good way to release deep fears. Ragi Sat Naam Singh has a musical version that carries a strong vibration for this.
Guru rakha,
-DKK