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Summary of Question:	Liking A White Person
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 11/05/2000 3:48 PM MST

Okay, I've been sitting here most of the afternoon reading these question answers and I have a question which has not been asked at all. I am Canadian born and have never been to India. I live in a small town where there are not many indian and a lot of white people. Therefore, most of my friends are white. I was well liked in class and even though a lot of white guys asked me out I was afraid to go out with them so I'd tell them I have no time for a relationship and that I'd just like to be friends. But this last year I really like this white guy and he really liked me. So we started to go out and we have kissed a few times too. We are not together anymore because i moved away for school and he went to a different unniversity. Was it wrong for me to like this guy and kiss him and go out with him. Will God think less of me now? Please answer back, I'm kinda confused.

Thanks
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Stop feeling guilty. What ever you did is done and in the past. Chalk it up to an experience that you had. It was an innocent experience. Color it pure.

Now you know that it is easy to learn to love a man irregardless of their appropriateness to you. So, the trick is to love and be attracted to someone; who is best for you. That someone should be noble and of high caliber and high values. Value yourself, and be choosey/ Do not give up your grace. So, choose someone that shares your faith and values and someone that is willing to be committed to you in marriage.