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Summary of Question:	Dating
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 3/26/2000 11:15 AM MDT

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh,
I'm a 17 year old Sikh youth from Chicago. I was just wondering whether it's wrong for an Amritdhari Sikh to have a close relation with another girl his age. By close, I'm not implying sexual, but I just mean hugging or even kissing.

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The mind is the most powerful sex organ. The relationship you are describing is sexual already. It just hasn't fully manifested in the physical world yet.
That girl is someone's wife in the future. What man do you want doing that to your wife?
You are in one of the most difficult times of life. The hormones are competing with your dharmic self, and it is a very tough battle. Read from the SGGS a lot. These hormones are like being under water, the Guru can take you across.
If you really love this girl, then protect her grace and her future. Keep the relationship as a sister.
LSK
LSK