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Summary of Question: | Great Dilemma |
Category: | Love & Marriage |
Date Posted: | Tuesday, 11/11/2008 7:10 AM MST |
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Wahe Guru Ji ka KHalsa
Wahe Guru Ji ki Fateh!
What does it mean to be an amritdhari Sikh? It means that you are Khalsa and that your life revolves around the Guru and the Sangat, not some girl. She may be a wonderful girl, but she is not your wife. She is someone else's wife. You need to focus on your own relationship with your Guru and with the Sangat and let go of your fantasies about this girl. It is hurting you and it is hurting her as well. You are not a victim of your emotions and fantasies. Do your banis and do Sukhmani Sahib da paath every day. Calm up. Let Guru Ji bring you everything you need. There is nothing you need to go after.
.....G