i dont have a question to ask but id like to take this opportunity to respond to a question posted on the site a week ago... to the young woman who got married to her parents choice and is still in touch with her ex... my heart really goes out to you... there are not may girls out there who love and respect there parents in the way you do and id just like to say that i totally agree and respect the fact that you did such a thing to please them... marriage is sacred and i am so glad that you appreciate that... its evident that you will not betray your husband and so long as you continue to think this way im sure things will work themselves out... you really ought to try to break contact with your ex... not only for the sake of your marriage but also for the sake of your ex... how can he ever begin to move on with his life when he is still in contact with him past? it was a very difficult step for you to get married... but the stuggle you have had to face will not be over until you break all contact with your past... i know that you may think i dont know what im saying but i understand... i really do... i am a 23 year old girl from england and i know how although we live in the west we need to live by our eastern values. i would be really happy to mail you in the future so here is my email address... please feel free to write sometime... it seems you need a friend at the moment and i want to offer you some support. [email protected]