Previous PreviousNext NextAsk a Question Ask a Question

Sikhnet Youth Forum Sikh Youth - Question and Answer Forum

Summary of Question:Just Need Some Good Advice
Category:Love & Marriage
Date Posted:Thursday, 3/01/2001 10:42 PM MST

Hi, I am in great need of some advice and was hoping that I could get this advice from you as soon as possible. I got married almost three years ago to a gursikh guy from india. He is the most wonderful person, and has brought a lot into my life. He is educated, respectful to his elders, and amritdhari. I took amrit with him, and he taught me how to be proud of my religion. However, there is one thing that I can't get over. i had a boyfriend before marriage, and that is the reason I got married so young. My husband doesn't know anything about my past, and I am afraid to tell him. He is very much against pre-marital relationships. However, my friends think I should tell him, but my parents think it will just ruin my wonderful, blissful, adn blessed marriage. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! It's really eating me up inside thinking that what if he finds out someday, what will happen? Can you please, please help me out?

Dear one, The mistakes of your past are done, let them go! Your past was wiped out when you took Amrit. You were reborn into a new identity of a Khalsa woman. You blessed yourself when you gave your head to the Guru. Are you taking it back now as you listen to the negativity of your "friends"?

Drop your doubt and move on in grace and gratitude for God's blessings which you have earned.

God bless you, SKKK

[Previous Main Document]
Just Need Some Good Advice (03/01/2001)
[Next Main Document]

by Topic | by Category | by Date | Home Page

History - Donation - Privacy - Help - Registration - Home - Search

Copyright 1995-2004 SikhNet