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Summary of Question:	Re:I Am Pregnant And My Husband Is Cheating On Me
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 2/05/2003 10:50 AM MST

vaheguru jee ka khalsa vaheguru jee kee fateh

my dearest bhanji i am really sorry about your situation but i also agree with person that replied earlier that you shouldn't stay in this marriage....being a single mom can be hard...

my aunt was also in a similar marriage, although her husband didn't cheat on her, he used her to get everything in life he ever wanted then abandoned her and her son who was a yr. old at the time......she has tried to give her son everything and worked very hard to make ends meet......this wouldn't have been possible without family support-which i think you need very much.....

i don't think that your husband would be a very good role model for your child....it's a shame why a guy would leave the comfort of his home with his pregnant wife to go into the arms of another.....whatever decision you do decide to make take some time and think it over.......vaheguru jee listens to all of his children and you should continue reciting the guru's name......and my dear bhanji may vaheguru give you strength through this mellow time.....i will be doing ardas for you.....

vaheguru jee ka khalsa vaheguru jee kee fateh

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That was a very nice response to your question. I would just add a question for you to ponder. Very realistically look at the reality of this man. He is ever going to change? It is probably just going to be one heartache after another. Maybe it is better to get out now and start your life anew. And, from now on, project that you are the Grace of God and deserve a man who will treat you as such. Don't settle for anything less. Get your life together for yourself and your baby. My prayers are with you as well. GTKK