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|Summary of Question:||Loss Of Self Confidence|
|Date Posted:||Thursday, 6/25/2009 9:54 AM MDT|
There is nothing wrong with you. Sometimes marriage is just not in our stars for a very long time. We don’t need to know whether someone likes us and wants to marry us just for the sake getting a validation from them. We can’t be getting married just for the sake of our relatives of what they are going to be thinking of us either.
If it is not in our destiny to marry right away it maybe because life is giving you a chance to do what you want for a while before you switch your attention to your husband.
Marriages are a lot of work and perhaps the universe is telling you not to rush into one and just enjoy your life being single. Use this time wisely and go take classes or hang out with friends find all sorts of fun activities to do, challenge yourself in things just to find out who you are. All of those things will help you build your confidence. It is always best to meet someone when you are on the higher note in your life.
Another reason why you may stay single for a while could be because your true soul mate is not ready yet that is why you haven’t met him yet. You want him to build his confidence too and find out who he is before you meet each other. You would not want some boy who does not know who he is, or would you?
Let this thought go the best you can and forget about it, then things will come to you the way they should.