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Summary of Question:	Pls Help
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Sunday, 4/29/2007 2:12 PM MDT

sat sri akal ji...

I am a 20 yr old guy.my problem is that i'm too possesive about my sister.we are very frank with each other.She tells me everything thats goin in her life.We study in same college ,whenever i see her talkin to any other guy i feel very angry or say jealous kind of feeling.i fume up whenever she talks something about her friends.

Recently, she made a gud new friend(guy).Whenever she talks about her,I get angry.maybe im scared of losing the love she have for me.I care about her a lot but sometime i feels that she didnt loves me the way i love her.She always ensures me that she too loves me a lot but i dont know why ,i dont TRUST her.

Because of this feeling we now regularly have fights. Im too confused what should i do to get over this possesiveness??i love my sis A LOT.Things have changed ,before we would have fun ,but now because of all this we constantly fight.pls help...i feel like cryin.

waheguru ji ka khalsa
waheguru ji ki fateh
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My dear,
It sounds as though you do not think this guy is good for her. Am I right?
If he is good for her and she is behaving gracefully then perhaps you need to focus more on your life. If you are concerned because she is not behaving gracefully then speak to her and let her know the grace of the wives and daughters of all out Guru's. Bibi Bhani, Mata Khivi, Mai Bhago, Mata Sahib Kaur,
Mata Gujri, Bibi Nanaki etc.
Blessings to you,
SKKK