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Summary of Question:	Married Life
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 8/12/2008 5:36 PM MDT

Respected Khalsa Jee,

Waheguru Jee Ka Khalsa Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh!!!!!
I am an amritdhari gursikh person.My wife is not amritdhari and i have one child also few months old. My problem is that i don't have any interest in sex life rest everything is fine, and this problem is disturbing my marriage life. The more i do path the less i get attracted to sex i know it is good to get rid of kaam but what about my wife, we both have different state of mind she can't understand me in this matter. She is so good that she never spoke regarding this to me but i understand her feelings. Please advice me on this.
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My dear,
Do not worry. Right now while the baby is nursing you are in good shape.
She needs this time to give of herself to the infant. When the baby is weaned, then you both should spend some time relaxing and enjoying each other and expressing your love and appreciation.
The intimacy will return. You have to allow this in your life as this is a part of a healthy marriage and is an important for your entire family.

Do your Path together and help her in her work and love each other deeply for now. Do not worry. But do talk to each other and work this out and keep your understanding

Blessings to you,

SK