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Summary of Question:	Sikh Girls Being Forced Into Islam
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Friday, 9/27/2002 10:03 AM MDT

Sat Sri Akal.

thank you for your reply but i have asked another question and nobody has got back to me. Is it true that Muslim guys are forcing Sikh girls to marry them by blackmailing them? there have been meetings held in the gudwara in the UK as things here are getting out of hand, especially in Bradford. Are Muslim guys allowed to do this and are they allowed to rape Sikh girls, as this is happening! i have heard the they go to Bahngra gigs and where a Kara and shorten their name to Mohan instead of Mohammed. this is wrong and i dont know whether to believe it, is it all true? not all people are the same, as i have friends who are very close who are muslims, but my parents and family are telling me to keep well away, but they are not like that, please help me, im so confused! are these just rumours or are they true, i know i shouldnt be saying it isnt true, as the Giani's at the gudwara are saying it is happening, but i dont know whether its the truth.
thank you for your time
Arandeep Kaur

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Sat Sri Akal,

I can not say whether this is true or not. But take a moment and reread what you have written. Muslim guys go to dance halls and look for Sikh girls to with whom have relations. It doesn't matter whether or not the the Muslim guys look like Sikhs or not, why are the Sikh girls going after guys AT A CLUB who are looking for relations?

If the Sikh girls you talk about kept away from Clubs, didn't engage in relations with ANY type of guy (let alone Muslim guys), then how could anyone blackmail them? Yes, it is a very wrong thing if a Muslim guy blackmails a Sikh girl (or anyone blackmailing anyone else), so why even put yourself in that position?

My advice is to have enough respect for yourself as to not start something with any guy. Then you won't have to worry about anything.

Gur Fateh,
HSD