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Summary of Question:	Wicked Wives
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Thursday, 2/14/2008 3:03 AM MST

Before writing this question, i was prompted to take a look at the other questions ...........since my question was reated to divorce, i opted for the same.............i read many of them and realized that all of them (not a single from opposite sex) were from females.

in contradiction to the above para, i find that in practical life, gals are culprits and make their own and their, paretnss and their inlaws lives a hell.

they act as opportunists. they want equal status, but only in home,but in bus, in office, in reservation counters, in elections...........etc. they want reservationssssssss

When i married my wife, she and her mom and dad were amritdhari.........but they didnt do anything except to have kirpans..........no nitnem, not kachhera, no kanga etc....

she lived with me for only a month and said that this person is not fit for me, in this one month did she did her best ????? and i am being accused by everyone becoz i drink...........but nonone believe that she too drink (tho she was amritdhari) and her father drink (tho he is amritdhari)......

divorce is last option, but she lived with me only for a month,.............i mean dovorce for her was the first (shortest i may say) option.......


THEN WHY TO CURSE ONLY ON GUYS????????????/

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I'm very sorry that you are in pain. Divorce is never easy, no matter how long someone has been married and under what conditions it occurred. But now it has happened, so you need to make the decision of how you want to live the rest of your life. The very best thing is to look at your self. What kind of a person do I want to be? Ask yourself...What do I want in my life? Who am I? Work on your self. You cannot work on anyone else but yourself. You are angry, resentful and in pain. Heal your self and go on...hopefully a better person. Others drink, but is it good for you. It doesn't matter what others do. What is bet for you, according to the person you want to be. Blessings, JJK