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Summary of Question:	Can I Stop It From Happening
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 10/23/2001 7:39 AM MDT

hi,

i have a little problem i was told by a pundit that i was going to have a love marriage and marry a good man. the thing is that i am now starting to worry a little. what if that man is not sikh and is muslim or comes from some other religion? i don't want to do anything to hurt my family and i know that if he wasn't sikh that would destroy them. if i knew if it was true and if it was with a sikh man or not i would be more prepared to deal with it and maybe i could stop it from happening. I was wondering if there was any way i could find out for sure? then i think that if its going to happen its going to happen and i can't do anything about it. but there's the argument that i found out because i was supposed to change something that i do. i am really confused and i need some help
thank you sonia mandip kaur

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Sat Siri Akaal. For starters, stop listening to pundits and start listening to Siri Guru. Guru gave us Siri Guru as our everlasting Guide and Teacher. Pundits will tell you what they want, what makes you think you can possibly trust this person? Why put your faith in a fallible person instead of the ever loving and infallible Siri Guru??????

Do your Naam Simran and Paath daily. That is the routine you should start and never stop. Siri Guru promises to arrange the affairs of the devotees who daily meditate on the Naam (and by meditate I don't mean 2 minutes of Waheguru, I mean sitting for as long as you have and putting yourself in a meditative state by chanting the Naam!) Forget what this "pundit" told you. Do not go looking for love, serve and love others without asking for reward and LOVE will find you in multiple forms, one of which will probably be a good man. Quit worrying because you are giving yourself a complex. Put your life and love in Guru's lap.

Guru ang sang,
-DKK