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Summary of Question:	What Should I Talk To Him About?
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Friday, 12/02/2005 10:01 PM MST

Im 15 and me and my boyfriend hve been dating for almost 5 months. We tell each other we love each other and when we're together we can be very romantic. When we first started dating we would talk on the phone for hours at a time and now its like everytime i ask him a question he answer meh and the least words possible like he doesn't want to talk to me or something. I really dont understand. Why cant we have a regular conversation? I can talk to everybody else but when i get on the phone with him its like i run out of things to say because he barely responds. What am i doin wrong? What should i talk to him about so that he would be interested enough to use more complex sentences? Or at lest talk to me like a boyfriend should. Sometimes when we're on the phone its like im on the phone alone. Usually i'd jus break up with a boy if he couldn't hold a conversation with me over the phone but when im with him im so happy and i really love him. Help me what should i do before becomes to bored and breaks up with ME or something??

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Friendship is the basis of a romantic relationship. If you can't talk to him, its going to be very unsatisfying in the long run. You are only 15 years old. Just have fun with many friends. Get your education, develop your self, enjoy being a teen. Relationships get complicated and messy. Wait until you are older and more ready emotionally to deal with all of the hurt and complications. Enjoy your youth. Don't worry about finding a lasting relationship now. Blessings. GTKK