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Summary of Question:	What Should I Do?
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 3/31/2004 9:26 AM MDT

VAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA

VAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO I FELL OUT WITH A FRIEND OF MINE BECAUSE I GOT TREATED BADLY MY THAT PERSON AND THEY HURT ME. BUT THEN I THOUGHT THAT I SHOULD MAKE FREINDS WITH THIS PERSON BECAUSE SIKHI SAYS U SHUDNT HAVE ENEMIES ETC. SO I TRIED TO MADE FREINDS WITH THIS PERSON AND AFTER SAYING SOMETHING I SHUDNT HAVE SED WWE MADE FRIENDS AGEN BUT STRAIGHT AWAY THIS PERSON STARTED TREATING ME BADLY AGEN, LIK I WAS A PIECE OF DIRT SO I SED SOME RELY HARSH THINGS AND NOW WE R NOT MATES AGEN

I DONT NO WOT 2 DO COS I FEEL 2 BE A GOOD SIKH I SHUD B FRIENDS WITH THIS PERSON BUT ALL THIS PERSON SEEMS TO DO IS TREAD ON ME AND BRING OUT THE WORST IN ME COS I ALWAYS END UP SAYING REELY HARSH THINGS TO THEM

WOT SHOULD I DO???

THANKYOU
Sat Nam. Friendship is a wonderful thing. But when two people cannot get along and end up saying harsh things to each other, over and over again, that doesn't sound like friendship. You don't have to be enemies, but neither do you have to continue to spend time with someone who makes you feel bad and "brings out the worst" in you. In your thoughts and prayers you can bless this person, but you can keep your distance -- just as common sense would lead you to keep your distance from a tiger. Find a friend who brings out the BEST in you, and try to do the same for everyone! Blessings, SP