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Summary of Question:	Problems With Wife
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Monday, 10/21/2002 10:25 AM MDT

First of all, I extend my deep gratitude to entire staff and especially counselors on sikhnet for their excellent services to Sikh community in particular.

I am separated from my wife and a lovely daughter (she is 3 now) for
last 2 years. There is no legal separation yet. We just don't live together.
We met about a year ago and had an argument after which she never met
me and has never responded to my phone calls, emails, post-mails, greeting cards
and even flowers. She is very stuborn but I think she still loves me.

I just want to know any verse or shabad or a particular bani in the Holy Guru Granth Sahib Ji, recitation of which can help me unite with my wife. I am not depressed and take this situation as Waheguru ji's Hukam.

Thanx a lot in advance for your help and time !!

Seeking everybody's blessings and best wishes,

Guru-ghar-da-daas.
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When Arjan Mal was sent away by his father, Guru Ram Das, he wrote the prayer we call "Shabd Hazare". It has the power to unite you with your beloveds. Recite it 11 times a day for 90 days.....or continuously for the next 3 years. You can find it in your nitnem and on Sikhnet in both musical form and in written form(Shabd sheets).

Also, go to see her!!!!!! A woman needs the complement and company of her spouse. Also, try seeking some family or professional help.

God bless you,
SKKK