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Summary of Question:	Lonely & Lost
Category:	Meditation
Date Posted:	Sunday, 1/11/2004 8:17 PM MST

Hi,

I would like to know which Shabad or Paath I can do to strenghten the marriage and the bond & relationship between me and my husband. Before I got married to him, my husband was very nice to me. Now, he hardly talks to me and there is no anyone I can approach as we stay alone and I have left my country & parents to live with him.

(REPLY) Sat Nam. In REhiras Sahib there is a secion called, "So Purkh." (Try reciting it 11 times a day) In addition, reciting "Shabd Hazaray" is another beautiful shabd. Meanwhile, I hope you are making an effort to get acquainted in your new country. Make some friends by joining some charitable group -- even offering some time to serve as a volunteer at something like the Red Cross, so you can meet people. Do you go to a local Gurdwara? Do seva there. And above all, be as cheerful and smiling with your husband as you can be, so that you charm him with your grace. Pretend as if everything is smooth and happy, and in your mind bless him for being sweet and kind to you. Positive thinking can go a long way. Never underestimate your power as a woman! Don't complain to him. Make things as pleasant at home as you can, and see what happens. My prayers are with you. Blessings, SP