Nice to know Great Sikhs live out there. I have been through similar situation, and I think my body language says more than words; people have never asked me to come clubbing, however, I have been invited to Gospel "parties" of various religions that I have gracefully declined because the motive of these "Gospel Parties" has been to convert people of other faiths or religions. It is good to stand your ground, and not give in to peer pressure. It pays off.