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Summary of Question:	Shabd To Have A Nice Husand In My Future
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Saturday, 2/04/2006 4:52 AM MST

sat sri akal ji

i want to ask very important from you because you people are very wise and have wide experiences of life. you are acting second god for sikh youth and are connecting us wih god.thankyou!
well.....i am 18 year old jatt sikh girl from punjab india.i really think so much about marriage may be because my parents didn't had a good and enjoyable marriage.my dad used to drink so much and used to create lot of troules for my mother my younger brother me and my grandmother.but my mother is very optimistic ,humble and very hard working lady and she has faith in god and with her prayers and good wills now my dad doesn't drink anymore but he is still very abusive but my mother never cares,she is very happy with him and loves him a lot.i really think that she is the reall lady because if any other woman had been in her place,she would have taken divorce and our life would hav ruined.i really thankyoy god for all this.
i on the other hand think that if i will get such type of person as my husband,how will i survive!!!i am a very sensitive,innocent type of girl and i want to have a good and nice husand who respect me and never abuse me.i know that too much expectations are not good and i have to take what god will give to me but i always feel that my husband would be a nice saintly person.please give some good advice to me because the moment i see fightings and abuse in my family..i feel so sad and so many questions like this arise in my head and makes me more sad.please help me.what should i do to have a nice ,good , intelligent but a very nice husband who have good heart.is there any shabd which i can do to have a good husband??
i serioulsly need your help.please do reply to my question.
thankyou

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********** Sat nam. Yogi Bhajan Ji taught many Sikh women to recite the "So Purakh" found in rehiras sahib for one's husband, now or future. Recite sincerely 11 times a day. Guru ang sang
-DKK