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Summary of Question:	All Written By God?
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 4/16/2010 10:46 PM MDT

Hi,

Well I'm getting older and I often find myself thinking about my future spouse. I think of who he is going to be and all and how I would meet him and ofcourse when I would meet him.

My question is, is all decided by Waheguru Ji, who we marry and when we marry them?

What can I do bring my husband into my life quicker? Sometimes I feel like will I ever get married? :(

Please tell me what you think...

Thanks
God bless!

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Sat Nam,

Your situation is very common.
The question here is whether you think you are ready to marry. If and when you are the right person usually comes along. If you want to speed it up you recite So Purkhs 2,5 hours every day for 40 days. You can also recite Shabad: Mangal Saaj Bha-I-aa Parabh Apnaa Gaa-I-aa Raam - 11 times a day how ever long it takes to meet your soul mate. I am sure there are other Shabads to recite for that same purpose.
Otherwise you can just enjoy your life for now because this maybe the funnest time of your life before you get married. Marriage brings on responsibility and though could be a very happy and fulfilling institution usually can bring a lot of lessons and difficulties into your life that you may not yet be ready for.

So the less you worry about it, the better for now.

DWK