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Summary of Question:	Should I Just Walk Away?
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Sunday, 4/04/2004 2:51 AM MDT

vaheguru ji ka khalsa

vaheguru ji ki fateh

i am reely trying to help someone get on the right track and i think i hav had sum influence ova this person but it seems lik all i seem to get from this person is abuse and hurt, thinga that really stress me out and hurt me. I dont no wot 2 do shud i still be there for this person or shud i just walk away cos i cnt take no more hurt
thankyou
vaheguru ji ka khalsa
vaheguru ji ki fateh

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Sat Nam!! I think you should sit down with the person and ask him or her if he or she feels that your concern and suggestions are helping. If the answer is NO than you have your answer...let go and leave the situation alone. If the answer is YES, then tell the person that you feel the communication has been sometimes hurtful...that you need it to be congenial for you to continue. See what the person says. I think he or she will make it clear to you what they want. If the person doesn't want your help then you can't force it. Some times people need to do it alone or bottom out before they are ready for help and change. Just discuss it openly and be ready to let go if need be. Work on your own life. Be a good example. Some times that is all we can do and is the very best we can do. Blessings. GTKK