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Summary of Question:	Infieldlty
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 10/13/2002 6:42 AM MDT

I hope you can give me some guidance, I have been married for nearly four years . Two months after bing married my husband went away with his friends on a holiday where he undertook a holiday fling, he never told me, but I found out through his phone. His job means he travells alot , and recently he met another women, to whom I spoke to, she said that he told her he was not married,when I confronted him, he said none of it was true. I spoke to his sister about the situation and she keeps informing me to get pregnant which I don't think will sort out the problem. How can I bring a child in this world without any trust with my husband. Also I do part, and he dose not, he would rather go out and get drunk with his mates. I work very hard at my marriage, but my husband dose not and I just don't know what to do. When I speak to him about it, he dose not want to speak about it.

(REPLY) Sat Nam. For heaven's sake, don't get pregnant! Do you want your child to have a drunk for a father? I don't think you'll get anywhere speaking to him about the situation, but I do suggest that you start reciting "SO Purkh's" (from REhiras) 11 times a day, and pray for your husband to live righteously. Don't underestimate your power as a woman, and the power of prayer is the greatest. Do continue to keep up with your connection to the Guru. May God and Guru bless you and protect you. Is there not any other relative who can also guide him? If not, call on Guru Ram Das, the Lord of miracles, and keep on praying. SP