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Summary of Question:	How Do I Get Through My Feelings Of Betrayal To Continue To Have A Relationship
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 5/07/2003 10:54 AM MDT

My boyfriend and I were living together we split up for a weekend. He came back to me 2 days later. A few weeks later we were out at a club and he introduced me to a woman and her friend. Then he invited her and some other people over to my house for an after hours party. I noticed by watching him that he was flirting with her. About a month later he went to jail, during that time this woman kept coming around and wanted to hang out and acted like she was my best friend. I had a feeling they had slept together so I asked her, and of course she lied to me. Nevertheless I went and got tested for Aids,HIV, and Hepatisis because of her reputation and I soon learned that she was hooking. When I found this out, I stopped the friendship. When he got out of jail, I confronted him and he told me the truth. They slept together the weekend we split up. Since then he has been going to counseling, and church and really trying to show me that he has changed; but I still don't trust him because of the lies and cheating in the past. I love him but I don't know how to get past this. We ran into her at a club and she had the nerve to sit and harrass me. I told him this is what you caused, and I'm not going to deal with it. Can you give me some advice?

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Are you so hard up for a guy? Do you love yourself so little? Get rid of him and project for someone much, much better to come into your life. Be patient, work on yourself and allow your projection to attract the perfect person to you. Don't go looking, and don't be desperate. You will end of with nothing but misery in your life. GTKK