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Summary of Question:	When To Just Stop Thinking !!
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Thursday, 1/08/2004 11:52 AM MST

Allo ALLO !!!!

In this day and age I find that it is so important for one to find themselves.
With the modern day rush of school...part time jobs, home life dramas, personal health agendas and social networking complications...it is almost impossible to find time to just sit and reflect.
In the last four years.. i feel like so much has happened..without me having any sort of control.
I do not hate the person I have become, but rather quesion her.
Often times I hear about..'finding urself' and wish to look more into that area of severe interest.

Now..other than pahrt...what can ya suggest?

Another thing...

Why is it that indian men find it so easy nowadays to assume that when they are friends with a female..that it is acceptable to be using her...for his personal pleasure...? as in..why do women nowadyas..aceept it more readily..to be someones doormat (they think they are being liberated)...?

I thought society was moving ahead..and that our people were doing wonders in this country. (canada)...yet when I look around..I see soo much crap.
I guess the only reason it bothers me wud be that...
I am educated..good looking..friendly..BUT...very family oriented...stubborn..and well..old fashioned. WHen a guy approches me..I have so many posible alterior motives going thru my mind that...usually..i just end up cracking jokes....making it so that..he understands how i am just a clown and cud never take anyone seriously abt relationships....and well..just leave it there?

WHat happens..if Im too busy poking fun and being all light headed...if mr.right is sitting there being sincere...totally unaware of what thought processes hes being interrogated with..?
LOL

Now if that doesnt make me sound like a crack pot..what will eh ?
anyhow..lets see what ya have to say..and yeah I know that the two comments..are total...opposite sides of some-sort of spectrum kinda deal.

Awaiting....

ME.

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You are absolutely right. The most important thing is to find yourself, then have the courage to be yourself. It sounds like joking around is not revealing your true self. Could you use joking around because you don't trust your boundries? A part of knowing yourself is attaching character values to that self. If you know yourself, your values and have the courage to live to them, there will be no conflict. You can be yourself and Mr. Right will be attracted to YOU. Relate to the Guru and attach yourself to His/Her strength to be YOU.
Blessings, GTKK