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Summary of Question:	Instate Of Confusion
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 5/07/2004 12:49 AM MDT

i am 20years doing engineering ..i love a girl ..she knows it very well....i am a amrit dhari singh of guru gobind singh i want to marry her ...but she says it is not possible as she is a hindu...and said her that god can do anything ,,makes impossible possible.....at present we are not in talking terms as i have abused her ....she is also in my college....i tried hard to forget herbut all in vain...i am also having some health problems.......what should i do../???show me some way ..i want to meditate.....

(REPLY) Sat Nam. Take care of your health, get medical advice. Get up in the Ambrosial hours, before dawn, and chant God's Name. Read your banis. These are the things to do to bring clarity to any life situation. What do you mean you have "abused" the girl you claim to love? Verbally insulted her, or what? You may think that you can not forget about her, but that would probably be the best thing to do. At least for the present you need to focus on your college work, and focus on creating a close and intimate relationship with your Guru! Surrender to God's will, and let Guru guide you in righteousness. I understand how strong the emotions are at your age, but these emotions are not who you are. You need to go into the very depths of your being and discover the soul that brought you to this incarnation, then you can work out your karma and make wise decisions for your future. Chant to Guru Ram Das, the Lord of Miracles, and pray for guidance. Blessings, SP