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Summary of Question:	Can Guru Ji Trust Me, Even Though I Went Against Reyat And Sikhi..
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Thursday, 9/19/2002 5:54 PM MDT

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!

khalsa ji..i m 22 years old sikh girl..i have read in SGGS that ones u break ur amrit or reyat..guru ji doesn't trust you ne more..i know this is true..what i want to know..what if that person is truely sorry about that from hear..and wants to walk on path of sikhi again..will Guru/Waheguru will be with me..i m soo scared...i tried turban today..i used to wear it b4..when i was amritshak...i tried it today...after long time..and waheguru ji..i was looking sooo gorgeous...i want to wear turban..even though my hairs aren't long..they are too short till shoulders..but my mom is scared from me..infact today i came to know..that whole family and even relatives i put them in dangerous situation..cuz i m changing ones again..going toward truth..this time i m trying hard...it's been only three weeks i guess..and i started to feeling as if i know everything..but in reall i don't..but iw ant to wear turban..cuz i know what is the importance of kes..in sikhi..but i don't know how to tell my family that i want to wear it..cuz if i will my dad told me that he will left the house..and my mom..she will cry..i think..that she thinks that i m gonna embarrace her..if she go somewhere with me..cuz i remember..all the time she says that what i m gonna tell to others..and to be honest with u khalsa ji..i feel same scared..what people gonna think that it's a game for me..i m soo confused..one side i want to walk to sikhi..but on the other side...i get distracted..from watching people ..i know it's hard to walk on truth and it's easy to walk on false..bad things..but plz help me..tell me what should i do..if i go against them..i have no job..i m a student..what if they will think that i m a bad person as i was before.. 1 year before..i m soo confused..i feel that if i walk on this path..i don't want to fall down...or leave this way..just cuz i want to be like others..which i know is lie..

thankyou..for listening to me again :)

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!
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This turban is soemthing that holds your head together. It adjusts the 27 bones of the skull. If you feel great and gracious when you wear it.....then, you can weather the storm of your parents emotions. Spiritual practices do bring opposition to their court. These challenges temper your steel and give you clarity and a deeper more personal understanding of your practice or your need for your practice.

You choose, either you are a leaf blowing in the wind, or you are a tree standing firm throughout the storm.

All this is a gift from Wahe Guru. This is why we say, "Wahe Guru Ji Ka Khalsa. Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh". The pure ones belong to God, All victory is His.
God bless you,
SKKK
SKKK