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| Summary of Question: | He Thinks He Is Still A True Gursikh :-(( |
| Category: | Sikh Practices |
| Date Posted: | Monday, 12/09/2002 6:14 PM MST |
I GOT MY COUSIN WHO WAS A AMRITDHARI ONCE IN HIS LIFE. HE IS MARRIED NOW AND ASK HIS WIFE TO SHAVE HER LEGS FOR FINDING GOOD JOBS IN DUBAI. HE DONT WEAR ANY KAKKAR NOW I.E. NO KARA, NO KIRPAN, NO KACHERA AND NO KANGA AND WEARS UNSHORN HAIRS ON TOP OF HIS HEAD AND FACE BUT CUT HIS HAIRS FROM INSIDE I.E UNDERARMS AND NEAR GENITALS. HE EAT HALAL MEAT DAILY, HE DRINKS ALCOHOL AND DOING ALL THIS STILL CONSIDER HIM A TRUE SIKH.
HE GAVE ME ONCE LONG LECTURE ON SIKHI WHEN I WASNT AN AMRITDHARI BUT WHEN I TOOK AMRIT I CAME TO KNEW THAT TIME THAT HE IS CHEATING PEOPLE.
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS PERSON?
CAN I SAY OPENLY ON HIS FACE THAT THIS IS NOT WHAT A TRUE SIKH SHOULD BE?
OR SOMETHING ELSE BECAUSE I WANNA HELP HIM AND LET HIS WIFE AND OTHER RELATIVES THAT IS CHEATING.
PLEASE REPLY
MAY GURU BLESS ALL
SATNAM JIO
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Reply
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It is very disappointing when someone who was complete, leaves being Gursikh. However, I think you are realizing now that he was never really complete as a true Sikh of the Guru.
At this time, you must see the God in him. Bless him. Release yourself from your concern for him. Everytime you think of him and feel upset, say "in the Name of the Guru, I bless you, bless you, bless you. Do the same blessing for his wife and anyone else you feel concern for...including yourself.
When someone comes to you for help, you can help them. In this situation, you must give them over to God for help and blessings.
God bless you, SKKK
He Thinks He Is Still A True Gursikh :-(( (12/09/2002)