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Summary of Question:	Re:Relationship Dilema
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 4/09/2008 3:53 PM MDT

Thanks for your reply ji.

i will be seeing her around nov this year. it isnt possible for her to
come over due to visa issues etc. Thinking about her and marriage , i
have somehow started to think we dont know each other any more. we were
like two hands together in prayer at one time. i dont know if its me or
her , but i have changed over these 2 years and am sure she has too,
but she is still the one i love(d).
i seek Guru's guidance but havent found solace. what should i do for
mental calm and is there a way bani could help us bond better?
reply appreciated

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Yes, read your banis and lean on the Guru. It sounds like you will not know until you can spend time with her again. Distance relationships are very difficult. Letters, emails and phone calls just aren't enough to really get to know some one, especially if the people are not good communicating in those mediums. You need to decide if you can wait to November. It seems like you owe it to her and your self to wait to November and get to know her again. Blessings, JJK