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Summary of Question:	In-Laws Problems
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 9/23/2003 1:27 PM MDT

my two sister-in-laws are live in other country but they are trying to be with us in 2-3 years,both are married and i did talk with my in-laws but no use,because they love their daughter very much and always guide my husband to be with his sisters.sisters don't like me at all because my ane their thinking doesn't match...they always tount me..my husband is also had the same thinking...now he is understanding little bit...i'm affraid that when they get together my husband will do the same as he before...in their thinking everything is their family and the brother's wife is nothing...they need more and more importance and first stand in my husband's life....i'm nothing in their eye....they make faces when my husband pampered me in front of them...what do i do?

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Sat Siri Akal.

God bless you, dear. In some families wives are not treated with the respect they deserve. First - remember - you married your husband before the Guru, you are one soul in two bodies with him. There is no difference between you and him so how can anyone treat you differently? No one else has that honor. Practice feeling deeply your own dignity and divinity. Practice feeling confident no matter what anyone says to you. You have a soul. Your Creator made you for a purpose. You are loved and taken care of by your Guru no matter what surrounds you. The only weapon against this type of situation is to develop a deep self-respect and self-reverence. To create that self-respect, rise before the sun and meditate on the Guru's words. That practice will give you the strength to overcome your own negativity and the negativity of others. When you can touch your own divinity through the power of the Guru's bani, then you will humbly shine like a light and everyone's head will bow to you. You are the grace of God and there is nothing more beautiful or more priceless than you on the planet. Remember - be confident in who you are. Your confidence will win the day.

Much love and many blessings to you.

GPK