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Summary of Question: | Why Cant We Talk 2 Boys?! |
Category: | General Sikhism |
Date Posted: | Tuesday, 9/04/2001 7:02 PM MDT |
even wen they see u wiv ur brother and thats out of order!!
plz sort this out for me cuz no one else seems 2 undastand!!especially my parents!!!!
thank u xxxxxxx
p.s;reply 2 add above
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Sat Sri Akal,
In the west, people date to eventually get married and recently, only to have sex. When the older generation sees younger people hanging out with the opposite gender, they immediately think the worst: that they are dating and going to do bad things together, regardless of whether or not it is true. It is true all over, not just with Indian parents.
You need to explain to your parents that you are just friends and nothing else. And then, this is the most important part, you must keep up your end of the bargain and be ONLY friends, nothing else, no boyfriends or girlfriends.
Maybe it will be easier if you just do school work with both girls and guys at your house with your parents and then they will see that you are just friends.
You have to gain their trust, and then you have to never break their trust, if tell your parents you are just friends, then don't ever become more than just friends, because then your parents will be right.
Gur Fateh,
HSD