I think everyone has to do what works best for them. I would hope that we are not doing things in our lives to please others around us. Set your morals and stick to them. That is courage, regardless. Everyone has to experience life and I guaruntee none of the experiences will be the same. For some strange reason we were all brought together and our parents chose a path that has kept
us together. To find your own path is making your mark. Make it with a bang. Unless you want to be your subtle. That is your choice too.
I feel wonderful about the life I have chosen and have no regrets. I hope and pray through each choice you make in life, it will be a safe one and a happy one. Of course, I am an optimist and I realise challenges will be there and they are good. Trust in your decison. Remember to be respected, you must also respect others.
And one more thing, the real way to a woman's heart for all you lonely men, is to dance. There is nothing sexier. So get out there and shake that booty.
Your friend and Sister for life,
The Bhangra, Salsa, Merengue, Disco, Swing dancing, tae kwon do, kicking and punching, Kirtan singing, happy as a clam, "S2"
(Did I mention incredible actress, hee, hee)