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Summary of Question:	Depressed
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 8/15/2008 8:59 AM MDT

Hi,

I have been depressed since November, due to breakdown of a relationship. He is not very religious yet has passed his driving test, has a new job and is enjoying life. I pray to God everyday but cry most days and am on the verge of failing my course. I cannot get over it- its been over 9 months. I do Japji Sahib everday and pray for him to talk to me and come back into my life. I should not wish bad things on anybody but sometimes I wish bad things would happen as life seems so unfair! I try to be a good person. I lost so much weight because of lack of eating and sleeping and feel I have aged ten years. I know everything happens for a reason but I cannot continue to cope! I still love Waheguru but wish I would be given this one chance- I don't think I can be happy ever again! What should I do?

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If he doesn't love you, be grateful he is gone. You are better than that. Be grateful that you found out now that he doesn't love you, instead of in marriage. It sounds like you have a lot going for you. Go on with your life. Do well in school and prove to your self (and him) that you don't need him. You have your self and Wahe Guru. It is Wahe Guru's love for you that has created this. Be grateful. Its a blessing. Happy Bisakhi Day!! Its a time for rebirth and starting over. Bless you, JJK