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Summary of Question:	Do You Think Its Wrong To Marry A Girl Thats Not Sikh
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 4/29/2003 10:18 PM MDT

Do you think its wrong to marry a girl that not sikh or white

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You ask a question that only you can answer. I think it is important to look at the consequences of your decision. 1- Do you love this girl and does she love you? Of course it is hard to know what love is...but it is not a fleeting thing. It means that the two of you want to sacrifice for each other and spend the rest of your life together for each other. 2-Do you respect each other's paths? Does she have a spiritual path? Is it compatible with yours? Will she try to lure you away from hers? 3- Then, of course there is the question of children. How will you raise your children? 4- How do your parents view this marriage? Will such a marriage cause great distress and problems in the marriage? If so, are both of you ready to stand up to them? These are just a few things to look at. The important thing is for you and the girl to honestly discuss all of the possible consequences and challenges...and how you will deal with them together. Make a conscious decision, not one based on sex or fantasy. may Guru guide you. GTKK