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Summary of Question:	Betrayed
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 4/30/2003 6:59 AM MDT

sat sri akal,I need your help.My husband is betraying me for the past one year!!

he told me that he will change...he just kept on lying.He is seeing another women who is much older than him.She keeps calling him on the cellphone daily.I thought my hubby will give up one day but i think he is still lying to me.I have a son n a daughter.what can i do??I think i'll end up killing myself very soon.Should i approach her????Plse help me out.
thanks!!

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First of all, suicide is a very selfish and foolish option. Rule that thought out of your head. It is not an option for your soul or for your children. You do not have to act like a victim here. I would look at my options. Depending upon where you live - can you go back home with your parents? Can you blow the whistle on your husband to your parents and his? Can you file for a divorce and get child support and leave him? Start over, get a job? Realistically and creatively look at your options. Yes, I would confront his girlfriend. Calmly and centeredly, tell her, "Did you know that this guy you are having an affair with is a husband with 2 children. Don't be stupid. If he will do it to me, he will do it to you as well. Do you want this kind of a guy? I just wanted you to know what a jerk he is." As women, we are powerful. Take your power back and act with confidence and grace. Guru will guide you and give you strength. You owe it to yourself and to your children. GTKK