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Summary of Question:	Separation
Category:	Other
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 3/29/2005 1:13 PM MDT

Satshriakal.

My wife and I have separated for about 2 months due to family problems and we have a 4 year old son as well.

Could you please tell me of any banis that can help us get back together and what other banis that I can read to help us through this difficult times?

At first,she did not speak to me at all, but now we talk on a regular basis and sometimes for a long time as well.

We do realise that our son is important, but we are not together as a family.

Wahegur ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh.

(REPLY) Sat Nam. It is good that you are speaking to your wife on a regular basis. Most problems can be solved when there is honest communication -- that means listening to each other, not accusing, but expressing how you each feel, and sharing your concerns, expressing what you really want to have happen: I assume that is to get back together! The shabd that is worth a thousand shabds, is SHABD HAZARAY, written by Guru Ram Das' son, Arjan Mal, who later became Guru Arjan Dev, the power of this is said to be that whoever recites it will never be separated from those they love, and will never be separated from the Guru! May God bless you and Guru guide you, SP