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Summary of Question:	Is She True To Me?
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Wednesday, 9/10/2003 1:45 PM MDT

I'M A 24YR OLD FEMALE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 35YR OLD FEMALE. WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER 2YRS NOW. FOR THE FIRST YEAR AND A HALF I ALWAYS ACCUSED HER OF CHEATING ON ME. I THINK SHE IS JUST TOO FRIENDLY WITH PEOPLE AND SHE IS VERY SECRETIVE. WHEN SHE'S ON THE PHONE WITH THIS CERTAIN PERSON SHE TRIES TO TALK IN A LOW VOICE AND SOMETIMES LEAVES THE ROOM. I'VE CONFRONTED HER ABOUT IT SEVERAL TIMES, BUT SHE ALWAYS DENIES IT. I JUST DON'T WANT TO WASTE MY TIME WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT ALL ABOUT ME. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IF SHE IS CHEATING, HOW COULD I FIND OUT WITHOUT HER TELLING ME?

(REPLY) Sat Nam. Where there is true love between two people, there is trust. Without trust, and mutual respect you simply have an emotional attachment. Where is the spiritual basis of this relationship? What do you want out of life, other than a personal relationship? did it ever occur to you that you are basically a soul who has been born in this lifetime to pay off karma earned in previous lifetimes, and reunite with God? Don't waste your life in trivial, emotional pursuits.