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Summary of Question:	What Are Some Thing Girls Can Talk To Guys About?
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Thursday, 7/29/2004 12:29 PM MDT

I guess you could say I've ran out of ideas to talk to guys about.I was wondering if you could give me some ideas to talk to guys about? I will greatly appreciate it. Than you!

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Sat Siri Akal.

It really all depends on the purpose of the conversation.

Sometimes - the best way to get to know someone is to do a project together. Do seva together. Then you have something to discuss that's of substance, that has some reality to it. And then you really get a good sense of the character of the person that you are talking to.

Also - what subjects do you care about? What matters to you? Talk about who you are, what you care about, what your plans are for your life. Find out who he is, what he cares about, what his plans are for his life. Those are some ideas.

When you talk to a guy - relate to what is Divine in him. See the Jot, the light of the Creator in him. Talk to that. It will elevate him and help him have a sense of his own Divinity.

And last, but not least, never communicate to flirt or seduce. In this day and age, I know, it's the ONLY way girls think they should communicate. But flirtatious and seductive converation will only put you into ungraceful situations. Communicate with respect and reverence. In the long run, it will earn you his respect and trust.

Hope this is helpful.

Love and blessings.

GPK