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Summary of Question:	Sex Before Marriage
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Sunday, 7/31/2005 1:02 AM MDT

This is for the girl who originally posted the question.

I understand that you feel offended by the criticism.However, do you realise that as years will pass on, you'll start loosing your Sikh identity.I may not know your situation but this is obvious and I guess deep inside you heart, even you know that eventually its not possible you keep you faith when you marry in other faith. Marriage doesn't only connect you with your boy but everyone in his family. And may be distant you from yours.
Have you gone through that web site whyichosesikhism.com. If you haven't please do so. Its worth it.
In Your original question you ask if you can have sex. Moderaters have aptly replied. However,your question implies as if you boy friend puts pressure on you for sex . I feel you may not have asked the question if it was not so.
You seem an intelligent girl but don't do something that may ruin your life.
I know this post is hardly gonna make any difference in your decision but you can just think a little more before doing anything.
Thanks for all you time

I'll really appreciate if moderates publish this post. Thanks a lot