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Summary of Question:	Waheguru And Guru Ji
Category:	Sikh Practices
Date Posted:	Sunday, 4/25/2004 10:33 PM MDT

WJKK WJKF first of all i would like to thank sikhnet for all they're doing. my question is that i feel wahguru sahib ji and my guru mahraj dont love me or like me. iam amritari but i dont feel like a gursikh. i pray every night and i say, guru ji if u dont like me thats okay but i love u very much and i will for the rest of my life.i will do anything for my guru. some nights i start crying thinking that my guru doesnt love me. i do good in everything else like school and making friends but sometimes it feels like my guru doesnt love me. iam sort of in tears rite now writing this. when i have to put my name of assignments i allways put _______singh khalsa or _______singh sidhu. i love my gurus. i look forward waking up at my amrit vela, doing my ishnaan, and my nitnem. i love my guru and i dont want to loose my trust to my guru. i really cant type what i feel becuz the feeling between u and ur guru is not explainable.can you please tell me whats happening? WJKK WJKF

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The problem is not the Guru but you. The Guru is always there inside of you, whether you acknowledge it or not. It sounds like you might have a low self-esteem and don't believe within yourself that you deserve a relationship with the Guru. That will have to be worked out within your own self. If you feel you don't deserve it, you won't feel it. You will continually sabbatoge the relationship. All you have to do is surrender. You don't have to be a perfect person or Gursikh to have a relationship with the Guru. The Guru loves all of us...is there for all of us. All we have to do is acknowledge Him and allow His love and wisdom to guide us. You are sabbatoging yourself. Don't blame the Guru. The Guru is neutral. It is your own monkey mind that is preventing you from feeling the Guru's love. Let go of your negative programing- you know your _ _ _ _. Just let it go. It doesn't serve you...it's keeping you from living your destiy. It's a cop out...an excuse. DROP IT!!! Let us know how you are doing. GTKK