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Summary of Question:	Forgive Me
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Monday, 7/11/2005 9:43 AM MDT

Please help as i am the worst preson on this world.

I havent directly hurt someone but i was with my friend when this happened.

One of my friends went out with a guy but he was actually going out with someone else at that time, so there was massive arguments betweent them.

and my friend decided to post pictures of his previous girlfriend to her house, there wernt really bad but as she normally wears a hajab she didnt in thoses pictures and they were a bit revealing. (she got the pics from her boyfriend - hes the one that took them of her)

i didnt actually do anything but i was there watching her do this stuff and i didnt even stop her.

I feel so guilty, that poor girl, i imaged if that happened to me - i would probably kill my self.

i feel so guilty please help me.

---reply

Well, it is good that you feel badly. Some times guilt is good if it inspires us to make a change in our life. If guilt just festers in us that it is self-destructive. Make your guilt constructive for you by evaluating what you could have and will do differently. You may want to talk to your friend about how you feel and see if you can inspire her to uplift her mind and behavior. If that is not possible, then at least work on yourself. How will you treat others differently for now on...how will you treat yourself differently from now on? Learn from this experience...that is how we grow and develop character. Stop feeling guilty and do something to make a change. Blessings. GTKK