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Summary of Question:	Mother In Law In Tention
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 1/25/2005 7:49 AM MST

SSA , my mother in law is having problem with my jhaat (husband elder bro) he is converting into muslim and going to marry a muslim girl in this april , and my mother in law does not agree with it , bcoz the girl is muslim and she make her son to convert into muslim 2 , my mother in law dont want to believe that they are getting marry and they have buy thier own house also , they have told her many times but she refuse to listen to them , my mother in law still think that she can stop them in doing that , she often go to the woman who do black magic , i dun know how to tell her that its no use for her to do all that bcoz if in his fate that is writen then no one can change it , but its very hard to talk to her about it , she is now very hopeless and tense about this , as she is a single parent and she have got only 2 sons support . that is why she dun want to lose him in any ways . pls do tell me why to tell her or make her to believe that her son is really getting marry to a muslim girl ?

i dun want to see her like that anymore , pls do help

(REPLY) Sat Nam. There is only one thing that you can do, and that is pray for your mother-in-law. It is not your responsibity to "fix" the situation, nor to convince her of anything. People make their choices, and as sad as this is, there's really nothing you can do except ask God and Guru to handle the situation. May God bless you and all your family. SP