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Summary of Question:	For The Guy About Marrying On A Similar Level
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Sunday, 12/19/2004 1:48 PM MST

Fateh!

I just wanted to respond to the singh who wrote the question about finding someone on a similar level. First of all, well done for taking the path your taking and thinking about taking amrit.

Im 32 and I was in a similar position to you some years back, im happy to say that i am now married and have a beautiful wife. We both took amrit last year, the best thing that could have happened. For ages i felt like i would not find anyone, all the girls i knew had no sikhi in them at all, and like you i could not really marry an amritdari girl, she would not be on the same level as me as i wasnt ready to take amrit at that moment in time.

I left all my worries with guru ji, just carry on with what your doing, you will get someone. I did i dont see why you should'nt. Just hang in there.

I know it's not much advice, but it helped me. Hope it helps you.
Good luck!

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Thanks! Another consideration is that sometimes one HELPS the other step up. So an amritdhari who marries someone who is not can mentally and spiritually hold that space for his/her spouse and encourage him/her to get there. Guru ang sang,
-DKK