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Summary of Question:	How To Keep My Soul And My Marriage Together.Reply
Category:	General Sikhism
Date Posted:	Friday, 1/17/2003 3:01 AM MST

hey everyone.

i read the email about the lady that was talking about her husband having another relationship from the begining of their marriage. That email really hurt me and think that the lady should leave him. i know that infact i dont know the lady and i dont know her husband or the family. but isnt it tru that god wants us all to be happy and if she is not and she is to do something that is going to make her happy god will not disapprove. i know this is not the same but my b/f left me half a year ago i was so heartbroken and asked god why this had happened but then one morning i woke up feeling that god had wanted this and it was hes way of telling me that theres a better guy for me out there.

im sure there is a betta person for this lady and i think she should look for him and leave the guy.But pain isnt everywhere. you could find a better person for you but that pain would be replaced with love and happiness. i think you should confront yor husband and tell him that you know about him and hes other relationship. tell him you understand and you are going to stay at your mums house for a few days. and think things through. i think that he will feel bad for what he has done and stop. but if he doesnt then he doesnt care about u. the biggest truth of life is that we are all going to live our lives and eventually die. you cant do anything about the idea of us dying but u can do something about how we live our lives. do u want to live a painful life and regret everything. or live a happy life and have no regrets.

i dont know. i just feel that you should do what makes you happy, i beleive God is giving you a big Hint about your relationship with your husband.

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