i have sme light for your situation.I am a young 16yr old girl and i respect sikh bys for a turban.I want to marry a sardar.I admire the bravery it takes and devotion.My father is a sardar and is called handsome by many women now.Be true to youself,know about religion.love god and dont be afraid.To me a boy with love grace and bravery is much hotter than a loser who cant be himself.Im proud oif you.Keep it up.