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Summary of Question:	Brother Wants To Married
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 11/07/2003 7:17 AM MST

SSA ji,,

i need advice from u....i dunno what to do,, my brother is in love with a gall, and he wants to married her,,but my parents are against it and so am i....but he won't listen to us,, what can i do to give him some sense. The reason why my parents arent allowing him to married her, is becoz her family are not good persons. the girl spoke to me last,, nd she is already thinking of not living with my parents etcetc....how can live be so blind? and what can i do?

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You can only do one thing. Live your life as you know is best for you. Your brother has to live his life as he feels is best for him. Confronting your brother will only alienate him more from the family. With all of this judgment and fuss, why should this girl want to live with the family? Make her feel welcome...accept them. Guru is the doer...not you. GTKK