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Summary of Question:	How Does One Fight Wrong Feelings?
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Friday, 3/10/2006 9:14 AM MST

Gurfateh

Being married for 18 months now i am going through a very scray and hard phase. i am falling for a girl which i really dont want to fall for as i have a wife. how can i stop this? i want eyes for my wife only but this other girl is so much prettier and i keep thinking i should ahve amrried someone more prettier than my wife. unfortunatley i cant avoid this woman as she works with me, so apart from leaving i dont no what to do.....

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Sat nam. What to do? STOP.
Let go of comparative issues like prettiness. At some level you are encouraging a 'thing' between you and her and that is why it is so hard to let it go. Be honest with yourself. Are you unhappy at home because of your wife's looks?!?!? Or because you don't really want to be married?
It is wrong to encourage an attraction that you cannot morally honor. You know exactly what to do. STOP encouraging this 'thing' between you and your workmate. Ask your boss to be moved to another location in the workplace. Guru ang sang,
-DKK