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Summary of Question:	Re: Depression Due To Relationship Breakdown
Category:	Love & Marriage
Date Posted:	Tuesday, 4/08/2008 10:19 AM MDT

Re: Depression due to relationship breakdown

I read the reply and the issue is not about loving myself becuase I do- maybe a bit too much if I am honest. I have let things get really bad and told him lies so he would continue talking to me but now he will never be my friend and wants to cut off ties. I think its so unfair that I have become more religious yet am not able to have this chance. I've tried everything and don't know what else to do. I am still praying for him to be with me! I don't want him to find out I lied but I cannot tell him the truth. I am still obsessed. I tell my mum to pray for my happiness but cannot tell her the real reason Ihave benn upset for 5 months. I have exams coming up but cannot focus. Every thought i about him or Waheguru- nothing else seems to matter. Can I pray for him to give me a chance and for him to stop hating me? His family interfering made it all worse! Please help- what prayers will help me, is there any promise I could make to God for this to work out?

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You are young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Focus on school, finishing your education, becoming strong within your self and developing yourself. LEt go of this guy. Learn from this experience and vow to never make that mistake again. There are more fish in the pond. You may not think that now, but there are. When the time is right, you can start fresh with some one even better for you...and you for him. Go on with your life and be happy that you got a very big lesson. If you truly believe in Guru's will, then believe that He is watching out for you and protecting you. There will be someone much better in the future. Live today and be happy and grateful. Blessings, JJK